Answer: reconciling

AnswerCrossword Clue
reconcilingRECONCILE, to restore or bring back to friendship or union
reconcilingMake (one account) consistent with another, esp. by allowing for transactions begun but not yet completed
reconcilingCause to coexist in harmony; make or show to be compatible
reconcilingRestore friendly relations between
reconcilingSettle (a disagreement)
reconcilingMake someone accept (a disagreeable or unwelcome thing)