Answer: velvetglove

AnswerCrossword Clue
VELVETGLOVEGentle manner intended to deceive
VELVETGLOVE"Iron fist" covering
VELVETGLOVERuthless one's disguise, so to speak
VELVETGLOVEPolite-but-firm persuasion
VELVETGLOVESymbol of superficial gentleness.